The Sacredness of Rhythms – Tuning in to natural cycles

Winter is more than a season — it’s an invitation to slow down, listen, and prepare the soil for what’s next. In this post, I share how reconnecting with natural rhythms transformed my relationship with winter and offer a guided ritual with cacao, breathwork, and the Akashic field to help you embrace its quiet wisdom.

As I have navigated through my journey of self-discovery and healing, I have found certain truths that seem to repeat for everyone and everything. These are often referred to as Universal Laws.

One in particular got me baffled and on edge for quite some time until I surrendered to it. The Law of Cycles.

Or as I prefer to call it, the call of our natural rhythms.

We all respond to certain rhythms. Just like the planet responds to the rhythms of her revolutions, to the rhythm of the revolution of her satellites, to its own pulse.

We do too, and everything around us. The rhythms we are most attuned is that of the sun bringing days we can fill with action. Seasons, bringing the key to our survival in the centuries that preceded our industrialised lives.

Each season has its own role, conditions and demands. And as natural beings first and foremost, our bodies and minds respond to them.

There’s a point in winter when the stillness becomes almost palpable. The air feels heavier, the days slower, and our bodies instinctively want to follow suit. Yet, we often fight it.

We push through the cold with the same pace we held in summer, drinking coffee to override our fatigue, filling our schedules to avoid the silence. But what if this season wasn’t asking for more of us? What if it was asking for less?

For me, winter has always felt like the worst time of the year. I was raised in North Africa and France and did spend most of my life in summer. It is the season where I feel most alive and winter, on the other hand, never felt right. A time to shiver and be slowed down by the cold.

As I deepened my practices, and learnt to reconnect to my body though, winter became an invitation. A whisper to come home to myself.

I realised winter is a time to draw inward, to let my nervous system soften, and to tend to the quiet parts that get lost in the noise of busier months.

I started to see myself like a tree. Noticing that trees too slow down in winter. Understanding that the leaves that fell the season before were now nurturing the soil in which the tree feeds and prepares for growth and creation in the warmer days.

I thought, if I am a natural being, then maybe winter is here to help me prepare the soil of my growth and creativity.

I noticed that the more I attune to the rhythms in and around me, the gentler my perception of life becomes and the stronger I stand.

Winter invites us to slow down. In a world that glorifies constant doing, this season offers a quiet nudge to turn inward. To rest, reflect, and nourish the parts of ourselves that often get neglected.

But slowing down isn’t always easy. Our minds resist stillness, our nervous systems cling to urgency, and we forget how to truly rest. This is where ritual becomes powerful. Giving structure to the sacred pause.

This winter, I have woven together a practice for those who, like me, are learning to embrace stillness. The Sacred Winter Ritual is a guided journey to help you embrace this season with intention. Through ceremonial cacao, gentle breathwork, and a channeled Akashic meditation, you’ll be guided to connect deeply with your heart and access the wisdom that winter holds. In it:

    • Cacao preparation — a gentle way to awaken the heart and ground into presence.

    • Breathwork — to slow the body and bring softness to the nervous system.

    • A guided Akashic journey — to listen for the quiet wisdom that emerges when we stop running.

And because winter is also about nourishment, I’ve included a simple guide with seasonal foods that support women’s bodies — the kind of comfort that comes from warm broths, mineral-rich greens, and deeply grounding meals.


This isn’t about doing more. It’s about allowing yourself to be held by the season to rest, reflect, and reconnect.

If this feels like the medicine you’ve been needing, you can:

For Your Own Ritual

If you’d like to create your own Sacred Winter Ritual at home, here are two of my favourite allies, with discount codes, just for you:

Australian Ceremonial Cacao – the heart medicine I use in my own cacao rituals, sourced with care and intention.

SuperFeast – my go-to for medicinal mushrooms and tonic herbs that deeply support the body in winter.

May you have a grounding and nourishing winter,

With Love and Care, S.

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Sonia Houria Rivas

Women Make Waves Founder, Mentor, Speaker, Adventurer, Writer, LL.M.

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